Why!?

What is life with out death? What is life with out pain? What is life with out the bad and the good? What is life with out love? What about life with just letting everyone be who they are? We force each other to define ourselves! But why? Why must I or my child or my friend or family member be defined to one image? Why can we not just be who we are? Why must it feel as though we must fit into groups, the skinny the fat the straights and gays and homosexuals and religious or non religious the free thinkers and can't manage to find their way out of the box thinkers!!! Money and image controls us all! A number also defines who we are. Credit holds an invisible power over us and even if we have worked hard everyday of our lives and don't have that high number we are worthless. We are not work giving to because of that number. How sad. When will society decide to wake up!? When we are all dead!? Or when there is only the smallest glimmer of hope left but by then it's so far away no one can reach it. Why, why, why!!!! We point fingers we blame others we fight and argue and we hate and we walk all over those around us. Just because you are older does not mean you are wiser but just because that's said doesn't mean with you being older you don't have respect from one who is younger. Don't use children as a weapon for they are the most innocent and beautiful. Don't be selfish! Remember who else is around you. Respect. Love. Be happy. Flourish that your family is large or even small. My body size does not define me and your view that we should all be a size two can be shoved...where ever you may want to shove it. Why can we not just be happy? Why is it not ok to be gay or lesbian? Because of a book. Why must we hide who we are because we are afraid of what others may think?! Who cares! Be you. Love who you may love, because none of us should judge. We have no soap box to stand on to judge. We just ARE who WE Are! Every life matters! Every heart beat on this planet matters. Why!? Is always the question. Let's start finding some answers to all those whys.